Letting go of the past, Opening up to the future
By Perrin Braun
We have all sorts of experiences in life, both good and bad. But when it seems like your past is fragmented with an overwhelming amount of pain, it’s detrimental to your ability to move forward with your life. Letting go of the past can be difficult, especially if you’re dealing with failure, death, or loss. We’ve all been there at some point in our lives, but the question still remains: how can you really move on?
One of the hardest parts of life is letting go and saying goodbye—whether you’re struggling with an addictive behavior or grieving over a loved one. The good news is that you don’t have to feel badly forever. There are ways of getting over the past that can help you to face your demons and get on with your life. Lots of people use a combination of the following tactics to re-build their lives:
Tap into your memories by whatever vehicle you choose. Whether it’s painting, writing, or talking, it’s healthy to open up and accept the past.
Sometimes it might help to revisit the past. Going back and talking to certain important people in your life can allow you to relive and let go.
Share what you’re feeling. This means talking to someone you trust about your past. Sometimes you might have to bury your pride and own up to certain feelings, but you’ll feel better afterwards.
Make yourself a little vulnerable. Even if you feel guilty and need to confess something, you need to find some way of expressing your emotions.
Moving on means… accepting that you can’t change the past.
Letting go means…forgiving others and forgiving yourself.
Moving forward with your life does not have to mean forgetting or blocking out precious memories. Letting go of the past will help you to have a healthier and happier future. The key to remember about moving on is that it is a slow process that cannot be completed in a day. Working through your issues takes time and patience, so take care to be kind to yourself and let the healing begin.
Best of all: you can Start Now! LOL
Courtesy of: Mind/Body Sanctuary
We have all sorts of experiences in life, both good and bad. But when it seems like your past is fragmented with an overwhelming amount of pain, it’s detrimental to your ability to move forward with your life. Letting go of the past can be difficult, especially if you’re dealing with failure, death, or loss. We’ve all been there at some point in our lives, but the question still remains: how can you really move on?
One of the hardest parts of life is letting go and saying goodbye—whether you’re struggling with an addictive behavior or grieving over a loved one. The good news is that you don’t have to feel badly forever. There are ways of getting over the past that can help you to face your demons and get on with your life. Lots of people use a combination of the following tactics to re-build their lives:
Tap into your memories by whatever vehicle you choose. Whether it’s painting, writing, or talking, it’s healthy to open up and accept the past.
Sometimes it might help to revisit the past. Going back and talking to certain important people in your life can allow you to relive and let go.
Share what you’re feeling. This means talking to someone you trust about your past. Sometimes you might have to bury your pride and own up to certain feelings, but you’ll feel better afterwards.
Make yourself a little vulnerable. Even if you feel guilty and need to confess something, you need to find some way of expressing your emotions.
Moving on means… accepting that you can’t change the past.
Letting go means…forgiving others and forgiving yourself.
Moving forward with your life does not have to mean forgetting or blocking out precious memories. Letting go of the past will help you to have a healthier and happier future. The key to remember about moving on is that it is a slow process that cannot be completed in a day. Working through your issues takes time and patience, so take care to be kind to yourself and let the healing begin.
Best of all: you can Start Now! LOL
Courtesy of: Mind/Body Sanctuary
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